Gender discrimination still exists and power still lies with
the male members in various sections of the society although it has decreased
in some parts of the country. When we think of developing a community, we
cannot simply progress with educating and involving men. Women empowerment is
the basic need for the development of a community as she plays vast role in the
life of her children who are the future of a community.
Sushmita Mondal is one such woman from Sundarban’s coastal
fishing community, who is playing a great role in the development of her
community. In fact, she is the force behind the progress of several women of
her community. But, her journey to become an inspirational figure was not so
easy and she had to fight a lot of odds and oppositions before reaching this
position.
Sushmita Mondal |
Sushmita was only 16 year old when she was married to a landless daily
labour. At this tender age, she started her conjugal life at Radhakrishnapur
village of Rudranagar Gram Panchayat in Sagar Island (Sundarban, West Bengal).
Belonging to a scheduled caste coastal fishing community,
Sushmita’s father had 7 children, of which she was the youngest. Her father was
not interested in educating her as she had older brothers who were supposed to
get preference being the heir of the family. However, with support from her
mother, the adamant girl completed her studies till class X. Unlike her other
siblings, Sushmita was very intelligent and committed to her studies so her
father also had to support her finally. But, her dream of higher studies was
broken when her family got her married just after her matriculation.
Sushmita with her family members |
Here, at her in-law’s place, another struggle was waiting to
welcome Sushmita as her father-in-law married another young woman. Thus, her
mother-in-law was left aside heartbroken and was losing interest in life. At
this time, Sushmita became a strong support to her by motivating her
mother-in-law and gave her a new lease of life. Her husband along with his
brother separated from her father-in-law’s new family. Now, the challenge was
to run the family without any support from her father-in-law. Her husband used
to earn a very small amount as daily labourer and from fishing. It was tough
for the family to survive as she gave birth to a daughter during this period.
In 2011, SEED (Society for Socio Economic and Ecological
Development) initiated various developmental works in Rudranagar GP area in
association with the local Gram Panchayat. So, the GP members thought to
involve Sushmita in this progressive work since she was educated and needed
work to support her family. She was introduced to SEED workers and she started
attending various group meetings. After few meetings, she realised that her
work interest lies in serving people and SEED can give her the platform. So,
she became an active member of the organisation and started contributing in
several developmental works.
She has played active role in forming women Self Help groups
in Rudrangar GP and encouraged other women in handicraft work, entrepreneurship
development etc. She formed the SHG group named ‘Radhekrishna’ in
Radhakrishnapur village and generated corpus fund under ICZMP (Integrated
Coastal Zone Management Programme) West Bengal. SEED sent Sushmita to Hyderabad to attend a National conference
on community based approaches for inclusive growth (microfinance, livelihood
promotion and social agenda) as a delegate from West Bengal. This visit gave her
an opportunity to interact with people of different fields and she could
thoroughly understand the importance of ICZM project. This exposure made her
more confident and enriched her knowledge base in the development field.
Sushmita with other SHG leaders |
In Rudranagar GP area, there is a small section of Lodha
community who are still far away from the other communities in terms of
development. Initially, like other members of her community, Sushmita was also
hesitating and was afraid to mix up with the Lodha community people, who were
considered untouchables. Gradually, she overcame this fear and started mixing
with them like any other member of her village. But Lodhas could not accept her
easily. She was abused and sometimes physically tortured also when she tried to
mingle with the women of their community. Her own community people shooed her
away for this and criticised her. But, she was determined to work for the
betterment of the Lodhas so finally others had to give in. Even her family
members were against her work but now they are proud of Sushmita.
Sushmita with Lodha women and kids |
With the support from SEED and local Gram panchayat, she has been able to make them understand values of education, healthy food and safe drinking water. Lodhas have also accepted her as their well-wisher and the tribal women have become her friends for life. Now, they co-operate with her in all developmental works like sending their children to the non-formal school set up by SEED. She has also managed to bring the adult women in various livelihood training programmes organised by the organisation.
Now, along with her family members, the whole Gram Panchayat
members and villagers feel proud of her. With all these responsibilities in her
shoulders, Sushmita is also devoting good time to her family and her five year
old daughter, who studies in class 1. She wants her daughter to become well
educated women in future, who can take forward her good works in more efficient
way.
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